If you’re feeling a bit awkward or nervous about being in front of the camera on your wedding day, you’re definitely not alone. I specialise in capturing relaxed, natural moments for couples just like you; those who want to enjoy their day without feeling stiff or posed.
Here are my top 10 tips to help you feel comfortable and look natural in your wedding photos, so you can simply be yourselves and let your love shine through.
1. Choose Someone Who Makes You Feel at Ease
Photography is about connection. When you trust and feel relaxed with your photographer, it really shows in the pictures. I always try to create a calm, friendly atmosphere where you don’t have to worry about “performing” for the camera. It’s much easier to be natural when you feel like you’re just spending time with a friend.
2. Have an Engagement Shoot to Break the Ice
An engagement session is a perfect way to get comfortable in front of the camera before the wedding day. It’s a low-pressure, fun experience where we can experiment with different poses and settings, so you learn what feels good and what doesn’t. Plus, it’s a great opportunity to build a rapport with your photographer, making your wedding day photoshoot feel familiar and relaxed.
3. Forget Stiff Poses—Focus on Your Connection
Some couples worry they need to “pose perfectly,” but the truth is the most beautiful photos come from real moments. Instead of trying to hold a pose, focus on how you feel together. Whether you’re stealing a quiet glance, holding hands, or sharing a laugh, these genuine moments are what bring your photos to life.
4. Try Simple, Natural Movements
Movement adds life to your photos and helps you feel less stuck. Walking slowly together, sharing a joke, or even just swaying gently can create stunning images that feel spontaneous and natural. These simple actions help take the pressure off and let your personalities shine.
5. Take a Breath and Relax Your Body
It’s easy to tense up when you’re aware of the camera. But a few deep breaths can help calm nerves and loosen your muscles. Drop your shoulders, soften your hands, and try to stand or sit comfortably. These small adjustments make a huge difference in how relaxed and natural you look.
6. Look at Each Other, Not the Camera
When you focus on each other instead of the camera, the photos capture real emotion. Whether it’s a loving look, a shared smile, or a whispered secret, these moments feel genuine and intimate. Your connection becomes the focus, rather than worrying about looking at the lens.
7. Bring Something Personal
Props aren’t about forcing a look or style, they’re tools to help you feel more comfortable. Maybe it’s your bouquet, a family heirloom, a favourite jacket, or something meaningful to your relationship. Having something to hold or interact with can make you feel grounded and give your photos a personal touch.
8. Remember, It’s Your Day—Have Fun!
The best photos come when you’re enjoying yourselves. Don’t worry about looking perfect—laugh, dance, be silly together. These joyful moments create energy and life in your images, making them truly memorable.
9. Trust Your Photographer to Guide You
You don’t need to come with poses prepared or feel like you have to “know what to do.” I’m there to gently guide you and capture moments that feel natural and effortless. My job is to make the experience enjoyable and stress-free, so you can relax and be yourselves.
10. Embrace Imperfections
Perfectly posed photos can sometimes feel a little staged. Some of my favourite shots come from spontaneous, imperfect moments, a stray lock of hair, a shared laugh, or a glance caught just right. These little imperfections are what make your photos authentic and full of personality.